三十而立

I was told this recently. At 30, I am independent.

I spent my teenage years learning and mastering skills. In my twenties, I graduated with different skill sets, started wondering around the world, building my experience. Looking back, I am happy to say my adventures have been very meaningful. I have tasted all flavors of life in the past 10 years. I would say more 甜 than anything else, which is great! The twenties was a time of carefree lifestyle, formless and aimless in the sense. I didn't worry about my lifelong goals too much, I didn't have the responsibility and burden of carrying a family and I wasn't expected to play a significant role in most things. So, being a yuppie in California, I had the best time.

However, time keeps moving forward and eventually, every human being has to face his aspirations and challenges. At which point, he has to make a decision whether to continue with life as it has been or move forward to the next phase.

I have arrived at this point in my life. I am at a stage where I have gained substantial experience and capability to navigate on my own. I am no longer dependant of the established or fearful of the establishment. I am able to defy irrational traditions and say "no" to anyone deemed incorrect or insensible, no longer succumbing to the pressure of inexperience.

So, 三十而立 ... indeed, very true. It is time to assume the rightful place and role in this society. It is time to take charge and be in control. It is time to take over and lead.

[子 日] : 三十而立
[虎 日] : 三十以後 全力而進